Have you ever had to disassociate with someone or set strong boundaries with family and friends? The people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your life, especially when it comes to your dreams and goals.
After completing my two-year Equine Gestalt Coaching certification through Touched by a Horse, Dave and I decided I should pursue my master’s degree, which would take another two years. When I shared the news with my mom, she was disappointed and disapproving. She questioned why I needed more education when I already had my certification. I loved my mom dearly, but I knew I couldn’t let her disapproval dictate my future.
I wrote her a letter explaining that I loved her, but I would not allow her to tell me what I could or couldn’t do with my life. She received the letter, apologized, and our relationship changed for the better. She stopped trying to tell me how to run my life, and I’m so glad I had the courage to set that boundary.
Your loved ones may have their own ideas about what your life should look like, but their dreams for you don’t have to become your dreams. This reminds me of Mel Robbins’ The Let Them Theory and the freedom that comes from releasing your need to control what others think. You can love people without giving them the power to determine your future. Don’t let someone else’s opinions keep you from pursuing the dreams and goals that are on your heart!
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Have you ever had to set a boundary with someone you love to protect your dreams or goals?